Attracted to innocent/pure girls - soompi hangout

Seems to be a lot of resentment in these posts.

Defining "pure and innocent" is the main factor. If by 'pure' you mean; hasn't had sex, has never given oral, doesn't do lude behavior in public like grabbing a guys junk; then I know plenty of people like that. If you mean 'innocent' as in; hasn't had a boyfriend or even a lot of them (like has maybe had 2 real relationships), doesn't know a lot about sex positions and pleasurable things involving intimacy (I'm trying to stay PG here), then I know people like that as well.

If you mean the school girl look, pigtails, always sucking on a lollipop and bouncing up and down with her girlfriends as if she's 12, well unless she IS 12, I would most likely call 'bull' on her.

But by scenario 1, I would say know that you are dealing with a young woman who doesn't have a lot of experience. You are introducing things to her that she doesn't have a lot of experience at; making out, touching, rubbing, stuff like that; once again I'm trying to keep a low rating here. Proposing things to her that she has never done before, but her body will begin to hint at her 'we like this'. That's when curiosity kicks in.

You really can tell when a girl has never done something before. The widening of her eyes, focused look as she thinks about what she's going to do, maybe a little bit of hesitancy moves, like pulling back her hand a bit before going ahead. Nervous quirks will come into play, like biting her lip, or fidgeting with something.

Also, if you care about the girl, and you want her to be comfortable, talk about things first. Not just on the sexual nature. If she's never seen a gory movie like where bodies are shown blown up and bloody. A scene where a woman gets beaten. Then just let her know this is what's in the movie.

Even things like introducing her to your friends. If you have a friend who's kind of 'out there', curses a lot, is loud, you know the type; then warn her. Tell her 'this person is my friend, but he's ball of energy, he does this and this and that, don't take it personally. I'll keep him in check so you won't be uncomfortable.'

The most important thing is to make sure your girl is comfortable. You may be introducing her to things that she has never encountered before, but preparing her is the most important part. Let her know what she's going to face, what you're offering her. If she is all right with it, she'll give it a try. If she isn't, you'll be able to tell. And depending on how strong an individual that she is, she won't like you 'pushing' her beyond her comfort limits, so she won't budge if you try. That is a good girl there. One who isn't forced to do something that she doesn't want to. But there are also the types of girls who when they feel pressure, they don't want to disappointment the person, so they try to do as the person wants. But by doing that, they aren't enjoying it; it's only an obligation.

But please keep in mind that as with every person, when you introduce them to something and they like it; they make it a part of their lives. It's only natural.

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